BEWARE bringing your kids here. Any parents thinking of this location should think twice. Background: our whole family does jiu jitsu...myself and my 2 young boys, and we travel a lot to different Gracie Barra locations. I've seen many different locations, coaches, etc. and have always had a nice experience. That was until we came to this Henderson location...
My son is a tough kid who's been doing competitions since he was 5. He's still young though. I brought him to try out the Henderson location. First, there are far too many kids in the class with not nearly enough instructors...both from a safety standpoint, and from an optimal learning environment.
During the class, my son was rolling full speed with kids roughly his age and weight, and everything was fine. Now at that point, Professor Nathan moves him to a kid that is 2 years older, a head taller, and ~40 pounds more weight. Keep in mind, when kids are just 7 or 8, this is a huge increase. My son fought really well, but over time, the bigger kid started throwing him around given his size. My son was then holding his neck and clearly hurt. To my son's credit, even though he was clearly sniffling and fighting back full crying, he stayed on the mat to continue to roll with this kid.
Now at this point, ANY CARING AND OBSERVANT professor would move the kid back down to kids his own size after seeing that the level of competition with the older/bigger kid was too high. Especially when the younger kid is crying and injured. You don't want kids to get hurt emotionally or physically. Bigger/older/heavier kids can seriously hurt smaller kids...it's not like adults going up against bigger opponents.
NOPE. The professor was so careless and reckless, he then immediately paired him with an EVEN BIGGER kid, with a higher belt. In which the whole painful ordeal continued for another 3 minutes of rolling with this even larger and older kid. Still crying and holding his neck, my son tried to stick it out, visibly in anguish.
Finally, I insisted my son come off the mat to end this nonsense and take a breather.
I have NEVER SEEN such recklessness and lack of care for a young kid like I did that day.
I confronted Nathan at the end of the class, and calmly and respectively, explained how dangerous it was what he did, how we wasn't paying attention, how damaging a session like that could be for a kid, and how we wouldn't be coming back. I also said my son was hurt, and that his confidence was clearly shaken.
NOT ONCE, did Nathan say "How's he doing?" or "Can I go speak with him to encourage him?". In other words, not a modicum of care for this little kid. NOT ONCE. Not a single mention of his well-being. Nathan just immediately became defensive and arguing with me that he did nothing wrong.
Finally, he literally just motioned me to leave the gym as I pressed him (again, calmly and respectively) telling me to leave.
The way Nathan behaved during our conversation was outrageous. Even for kids who are at the competition level like my son, SAFETY, SELF-CONFIDENCE, and MORALE are still paramount. Especially for little kids. Nathan should know that. And if he doesn't, he shouldn't be running a gym for kids.
Never go to this place...after what they showed me, I wouldn't trust any kids in this environment.
Posted 1 year ago