Insults and breaking athletes down - Please look at this, take the feedback to heart East Bay Judo Institute and make appropriate changes.
The positive: Japanese tradition, Kodokan Judo, old school rules, bowing and discipline.
I visited my my 8 year old daughter, to take a class each. For the children's practice it was great and calm. For the adults / teenagers practice it went way too far. I've been an Athlete for my entire life; from basketball, soccer, college football, CrossFit, olympic weightlifting, gymnastics, and I have coached many of these sports, I have never experienced coaches treat young teenage Athletes like the way they did here. Yes, the coaches / sensei's have plenty of knowledge, but that does not give them the right to insult and demoralize the judokas / athletes. It's the part of old school coaching that becomes abusive and leaves athletes with negative self talk and a low self esteem throughout their entire life. I am speaking from my own experience. I did not stand up for myself when I was younger, but now at 35, I know what is right from wrong.
Examples of what was said during practice:
"Same judo for 6 years; you have not gotten any better"
"You are sick huh???
Let me show you what sick is
Puke boy
Puke
(Repeatedly throwing young student to the ground)"
"Go throw that belt in the trash
You don’t deserve it"
Boy throws newly received upgraded belt in the trash
I am writing this as a wake up call, that there is another way: to empower / build up and NOT to break athletes down. Discipline and hard work can be empowered through goals, motivation, challenges, and powerful reinforcement!
This is a legit facility, very knowledgeable coaches, deep tradition, amazing group of athletes, but when something is not right, I got to call it out.
The only reason I am giving two stars is because this experience rattled me to my core. If there was empowerment and motivation, the stars would be 4.5-5, because the rest of the experience was very solid.
Posted 7 months ago